THE
RELATIONSHIP RE-EVALUATION TEST...
A true relationship is one that can break down walls, and both sides are willing to be open to make things right.
Thinking about your self relationship, how is your communication, respect, and trust in today's time? Wishing your relationship was like this or that, perhaps as good as someone else man or woman will not make the months go smoother and the days go easier.
3 THINGS NEEDED DAILY for A HEALTHY RElationshiP or its not....
1# = Without communication, there is no relationship.
- Try to be more descriptive and not the predictable dry talk as to communicating about anything: work, love, life, problems, family matters, etc.
- Try to listen and give real feedback daily or weekly.
- ALWAYS! show support and appreciation.
#2 = Without respect,
there is no love.
-Respect each other thoughts and opinions
-If you don't have respect for a place, person, or thing; then you tend to not care, bother, or have no or less love for it.
-People tend to show more love to places, persons, or things that they have love for.
#3 = Without trust, there’s no reason to continue.
-Think about how the other person would feel if he or she is not trusted. Perhaps feel disgusted like a thief, a child to his or her mother/father, or less of a dependable asset in your life.
-Giving trust makes a relationship feels good, but it doesn't mean full trust.
-Give trust where it matters most to make your man or woman feel good, especially to show the relationship is growing further and deeper.
example: If he or she wants to go hang out with friends male or female that you have met or heard of then allow when it doesn't conflict with each other schedules. If you show heavy jealousy or strict of concern, then that will open your man or woman capabilities to hiding and lying behind your back.
So, trust that he or she will not be like that and do not promote it in your relationship.
PS: People forget in relationships to show true communication, Respect, and Trust. = Learning to open one self to speaking whats truly on the mind in real-time, Learning to be patient/considerate of others, and Learning to forgive but not forget picks up the relationship from where it fell...
*DO NOT make your spouse or other feel like they are being interrogated when problem matters arise. Treat and talk to each other as adults and not like immature children.
And Remember: “Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.”
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Sincerely yours
Relationship Specialist,
Mr. Hef
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I completely agree with all the above. Especially #3
ReplyDeleteGiving trust blindly to fools is like swimming in mud expecting not to get dirty.
ReplyDeleteyes in deed
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